I had made a post once before. But think it may have dropped off. My question about the gut feeling is this...Did you just ever have this gut feeling that your husband or wife was cheating?

That is the predicament I am in. I have been reading a lot on this subject. I did read that if you have this strong gut feeling you are usually right. The feeling I have is strong that my husband may be cheating. I am trying to monitor things very closely. But doing my best to not act like I am and above everything not confront ANYTHING I find unusual. I have read that makes them try to cover up things all the more.

But like I said trying to not confront is the hardest! I made one mistake the other day that I just found so unusual about my husband's behavior. We are very straightlaced family people. I went onto my husband's car to close windows because it was raining. He had this big club looking thing next to his seat on the floor. Like something you would keep for a weapon. \:o I asked him what the heck he would have that in his car for. He got so pissed and gain started ranting about being treated like a kid. He gets very angry if questioned about anything! He is hostile around the house to everyone. But anyway after he calmed down he said well you just can't be to careful now of days. This is not typical behavior of my husband. His anger all the time isn't typical either. Then you throw into the mix he registered at a dating site. Was e-mailing a girl from there. They never met. He wasn't a member long there. He didn't even pay for the site. But believe me his e-mails were a strong sign to not trust him at all.