KS, I have to say I'm a little envious of your position. My W hasn't "decided" if she wants a divorce or wants to be with me. I am tempted to end it myself, so I can move on and get over this. I wish she would make up her mind. So, I envy you - a little. ;-)
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread