Larry this is such a great story. I hope this is how they are feeling about the guilt and loss of family. I think they are seeing less of each other for the last month and he has been showing more interest in me. I know I have to really work on GAL which is the most difficult thing to do but very important. I hope things work out for your M, none of us deserve this. m-43 h-49 mlc s-13 m-19 yrs together-29 yrs