Nomopo's Thread - Is something happening to me?

[Strongerthanthis]

For me, as long as I was scared that "We're gonna get divorced, we're gonna get divorced" play over and over and over in my head I couldn't detach. My identity was too bound up in my M.

This is something I read recently, someone came back and said he read lots of posts and there was a distinct lack of self.

When we met our Spouses we were our 'selves' stories of success on here seem to be when people find 'themselves' again.

Is detaching, getting back to who we really are? if so is this the whole thing about DBing?

Anyway Nomo. this just jumped out at me, bit of direct hit! (Thanks BD)

Cheers
Charlie