How long were you together?23/10 M How long have you been separated?5 months Do you understand what happened to cause the separation?yes and no What do you think your partner thinks of you (now, then)?Feels betrayed for unknown reason. How does your partner behave towards you now?Verbally abusive and cold. Are you able to understand your partners actions?Not really. Do you seen any glimmer of hope for your R coming from your partner?Nope. If so, how long did it take before hope appeared (following separation)? What do you think caused that change in your partner?Children, sleep deprivation, work, gossip, OW, us. How regularly do you have *any* type of contact with your partner? Almost daily, yuck. How often do you see your partner?Gone dark, so I limit him to three x per week. Is that often enough?I do not want to see him while he is cheating and lying and dressing like a freak. Have you gone through a 'dating period'?No, but I am getting ready thanks to Homer. Was that positive? Are you able to discuss your R at all or is that too dangerous? What do you do with your free time? Make vignettes and read and cook with my kids. Watch Gilmore Girls, go out. GAL. How do you handle the feeling of being lonely, assuming you do feel that way?Too busy to be lonely. Not lonely, just miss my H as he was. What do you think about your partner (now, then)?He is charming and seet and funny, the dark one is cruel and cold and deceitful. Do you still want to reconcile?Yes, but losing hope due to deceit and betrayal.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
