Keep reading Divorce Remedy. He may beginning to enter MLC. He may have been there a while but is only now revealing it. There are several things you can do like show him your 180s. It is most advantageous to show the 180s while he is in the home so do not help him move out. Don't restrain him either. Use positive reflection. He will see himself through you so if he is feeling old, undesirable, worthless you can mirror that he has sacraficed a lot, that you love flirting with him as if he was desirable. Act confidant as though you believe you are desirable. But this is tricky, you cannot pursue him if he has low self esteem or if he is rejecting you. Why? Because he may question what is wrong with you to want someone like him. I am not a shrink. I just read Stop Your Divorce by Homer. I don't know your H, but you are in for a ride so be patient. Don't cry or beg or snoop or plead. Agree listen agree listen agree listen.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
