Thanks again frank but let us just conclude this conversation. I am in a good place right now and I want to keep it that way. I am on a comfortable path - I am sorry that you do not agree with it or support it.
It seems everyone is angry or bitter or judgemental if they disagree with you I see. You should be proud of your accomplishments - less than 5% of the marriages that land here are saved. But trying to say that there is only one answer or one path b/c it worked for YOU, with YOUR W, in your UNIQUE situation....
Well, let me say even the host of this BB does not claim that.
I know deep down that you are really trying to help but this is not helping.
Thanks again for stopping by. I wish you all the best.
