The only thing I can suggest,is if the 48 hrs pass and you still want to say something, make it calm and to the point. A while ago I asked my W to keep OM and others out of the picture so we could have clear minds and make a clear decision. I asked if she was willing to do this until we decided what to do, and if things didn't work out, until the divorce was final. Your own version of this may be ok if it's tailored to fit your sitch. My W seemed receptive, I don't know if she's honoring it or not, but I have no control so ???? It made me feel a little better, and her positive response was nice, but to be honest, I still think about the OM and wonder. Saying something didn't help me much and I don't know what it did in her mind.
Me 31 W 28 D 2 1/2 Together 8 years, Friends for 13 years S Bomb fathers day 2007 Found out about EA on 07/29/07 Working on me!!!
