Thank you. That is such a great way of explaining everything. My only hope is that the island paradise will soon errode away for my H!
My boss is also having an affair. I know this because I keep his schedule and do a lot of work on his emails. He's made the mistake of not erasing emails from his OW (who also works for our company....in a different dept.). I just wanted to say that I actually thought of him & her more when reading this than of myself & H. I saw a message from my boss & his OW saying that they needed "their proximity" and they needed to get away to "their world" and "their place". How well your story fits. Sad thing is that I just love the bosses wife too. Hard for me to know this.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day