it almost seemed that W wanted kids, married you, had 2 kids and got what she wanted from you, and she no longer needed to be married and 'share HER' kids with you anymore.
You know of all the things you ever said to me that caused me to think the most. I believe you are close to correct but I cannot accept it b/c it would make forgiveness impossible.
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Being done is your choice. Being bitter is also a choice. Don't be bitter. It's a bad taste!
Right on again. I will try.
BTW, my statement that it is okay not to stand any longer does not imply that I do not support folks who do choose to stand. What I am against is when "standing" is presented as the only acceptable option. I admire those who stand, and looking back I would recommend that working on the M is the best course during the first year or so. After that, I would say a hard look is in order. Then, it is still okay to give it more time and effort. Just realize what you are up against.
