First she said she was committed, says she worked on it internally(I never saw any work being done), now she is saying it can't happen. After some discussion, she is trying to decide if indeed she is done, which would destroy our family, or if she is truely committed to making our marriage work.
To answer your question, I absolutely do not find our current situation acceptable and I have told her so. I have been reluctant to push to much, but it is getting old.
She will have to begin showing outward signs of "being committed" or I think I am gonna tell her I am done.
Do people actually remain married without any intimacy? I can't do it!