I think it'll be easier to have fun once D16 is out of the house. You'd think she would be old enough not to worry about, but now that she has a boy friend I am worried more than ever! She always wants the BF to come over here. That sounds good, except she won't let me talk to him! That means I can't leave to run errands or anything. Unfortunately I don't completely trust her home alone if I go out.....afraid that she might not be home alone!!! H doesn't feel like he needs to "babysit" so I can't get his help.