Yeah. My own piss poor boundaries. That post above illustrates it. It's what happens when you allow your emotion to blur your own lines... and you allow your own emotions to blind you to your options and your choices... and you take action/reaction before your emotion(s) fully processes and recede.
When you do this, you act in a dishonest manner... and in so doing... if the person (or people) to whom you direct your action are not aware... you can manipulate the heck out of them.
It's what happens, GGB, when you give into frustration, and get sucked in to being more concerned about outcomes than sailing your own ship.
I know it is hard to see it when it happens to you... but maybe you can see what I've been telling you, through what happened to me here.
