I don't understand how your W doesn't see any of this..
I am starting to believe this is because she has convinced her C and her family that she is the victim in all of this. My W is reading self help books, books about being a single mom, and reading Sandi Patty books which seem to justify divorce even though they are considered a Christian book. She really thinks in her mind that she is the victim and with the little of support she is getting I think it is re-enforcing this thought.
Up until her A started all she ever said was how much she loved me and was happy with her life. Now that Dr. Adultery entered the picture I have suddenly in her mind become an emotionally neglectful and abusive H. In her words "You loved me as best as you can but it was not enough for me". I guess Dr. Adultery is Mr. Perfect.....
Journaling: This week my W has been on a huge push to get the settlement on our house finished. She now says that she is closing on her new place on Sept 14th. She probably told me the 7th orginally just to upset me because that is my birthday. Really mature isn't she.
My W has been calling me and chatting me while I have been at work this past week. While at work on Wednesday she called me to again push me on settling on splitting our house equity. I tried to tell her to leave it to our L's but she kept pushing it. I eventually told her that she had absolutely no respect for me doing this with me while I was at work. I asked her if she would like it if I called her while she was at work and talked about the divorce and how she is acting. I guess she got the hint because she hung up. To my relief when I got home my W had my MIL at the house so she did not have to see me. Actually my MIL was a sight for sore eyes, I really did not want to see or talk to my W after she called me at work like that. It is bad enough that her A has made it hard for me to concentrate at work, now I have her calling me pushing the D on me. This really sucks.
I have been keeping busy GAL and spending precious time with my DD's. I went golfing the otherday, I had my fantasy football draft the other night with a bunch of my friends, and my DD's and I have been hanging out with friends in the neighborhood. This weekend and Labor day I have my girls. We will be going up to Milwaukee with some of my friends and younger brother. It should be a good time.
