At first, I would cry when I went to bed b/c I needed to be held and loved....but I'm not doing that so much now. I know that some of you wonder why I can't just go into my H and tell him how I feel and ask him to hold me and to make love to me.....but right now, it would be like trying to do that with my brother...and I cannot force myself to do it.
i was wondering... if you are lonely.. why are you not with your husband? why dont you ask him to hold you? Just hold you?
In my opinion, the most important thing you could do, for both yourself and your husband, is just to do that every night. For your part, let him put his arms around you, close your eyes, and remind yourself that you are being held by the person who loves you the very most in this world, and that there is no one else who loves you even half as much as this man does.
God bless
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
