Beyond the strictly physical/fitness aspects, I find men who exhibit passion for their interests and who exude confidence without slipping over the lines into narcissism or arrogance to be very attractive ...
Definitely. One rather cynical dating book I read said that men look first for "looks" and women look first for "money" but I'll cut my fellow females some slack and say that women look for "lifestyle" or maybe what Deida calls "purpose." Women have certain "types" in that regard also. I'm not attracted to any man who signals Republican, conservative Christian, golf, sports bar, suburban tract house with wall-to-wall carpeting, fast food, World's Funniest Videos etc. Monkey-girl is so bored and scratchy with that guy she is crying. I would have to become an alcoholic if I found myself married to that guy.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
