That being said, maybe it's partly just looking at your sitch relative to so many on here, maybe it's partly projection on my part (and wishful thinking that my H would go to either MC or IC), but I have always seen your W's willingness to go and seemingly active participation in the beginnings of some hard work that it sounds like you've done in MC and the fact that she's willing to go on her own to this great counselor who clearly is working on the side of resurrecting your marriage as an indication that she is trying to figure this all out, too.
Great point L2, fwiw, I have thought this as well.
