FWIW, I was at the gym with S. today and lingeringly checked out at least three guys of varying ages .... I would be amazed if any of them were aware of it...
Beyond the strictly physical/fitness aspects, I find men who exhibit passion for their interests and who exude confidence without slipping over the lines into narcissism or arrogance to be very attractive ...
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
