GGB,

That probably came across more "smarmy" than I meant it to, I was writing it too fast.

I guess the thing is that there really aren't many hard and fast rules for how people show attraction, unless of course you are in a controlled setting (like a club or bar) in which the women are there expressly for the purpose of "playing the game." Any of the normal clues can easily be caused by something other than attraction, and any of the things that one might think would NOT be signs of attraction can be. For example, Mojo's statement about lack of eye contact and fidgeting could easily be attraction that is causing excessive shyness ... or it could be "get away from me you toad." I think the only clear way to discern is to notice patterns of behavior, escalation, or if you actively try to tweak the attraction and get obvious responses.

Two of the usual signs are proximity and a need to physically touch you. If you're walking around and you are constantly noticing the same woman near you in your field of view, chances are ... But of course if the woman isn't feeling good about how she looks, her attraction could cause her to try to get out of your field of view.

Anyway, my convoluted point is that you could be VERY wrong about your attractiveness. And if you aren't actively aware of the possible signs and looking for it, you could easily miss it. Of course obviously looking around to see if women are finding you attractive is not attractive. LOL

Chrome


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