What constitutes, in your mind, a woman "checking you out?" Could those just be the way MEN do it? Do you know how a woman expresses attraction to a man?
I know I was a bit surprised at some of the things women do, and then was even more surprised when I started seeing it happen all the time (not necessarily to me).
It is validating in a way Mojo, but it can also be a source of pain and resentment if you let yourself get into the "well why isn't my W showing interest if complete strangers have no problem with it?" frame of mind.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"