GGB, there is a lot more to attraction than first looks.
Unfortunately, although people aren't generally ultra-picky, there is a certain level of chemical attraction that must be present and this will be evident within scant minutes of meeting somebody. The sure sign that somebody isn't attracted to you on this basic level is that they won't be able to look you in the eye for very long and they will fidget. One man I met was not attracted to me at that level. I wasn't attracted to him either so our date lasted about 10 minutes. Surprisingly it wasn't that invalidating. Not everybody is everybody's type.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
