So, I suspect that I may not get many positive responses from women I'd be attracted to.
Okay, I guess I didn't really think it through. Women aren't really that picky about looks and women rarely blatantly check men out especially if they're giving off a married vibe. Also, women don't generally respond directly to portraits. They respond to your response to their portrait combined with your portrait. So do you think if you used all your masculine charms you could get a woman you find attractive to say "Yes" to a date with you? If you say "Yes" you just validated yourself. If you say "What masculine charms?" it's pretty clear what you need to work on in your marriage. You can practice on me if you like. Just remember Pat the Bunny/ Spank the Monkey but don't be too blatant.
I am currently working on my feminine charms. I have decided that it probably isn't very charming to say "Are you hitting on me?" to verify whether a man is attracted to you or "I don't want to take your stuff." in response to the offer of a gift.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
