GGB, REALLY? No one checks you out? I think you don’t possess the skillsto notice OW checking you out. BTW, I don’t either. I bet they do check you out in their own way.
The reason I think your picture on any dating site would draw attention is just look at all the mis-matched looking couples at stores and on TV reality programs.
I have some feelings like I wouldn’t attract a lot of attention but bet I am wrong too. Being in a one-down position doesn’t help your M GGB.
I feel I am just as good or not any worse than most of the average looking people. If someone else average looking is with someone, it will happen to me too.
I suspect that I may not get many positive responses from women I'd be attracted to. I bet that is what the women your age also say.
GGB, there is a lot more to attraction than first looks.