If you are someone married and doing what they can to stay that way. If you are not getting your sexual validation from your partner, the choices you have all go against something in your make-up, so it is a matter of choosing the path that makes you least unhappy.
If you posted your portrait on Match.com, do you think you would get positive responses from women to whom you would be attracted? If you answer "Yes" you just sexually validated yourself. Wasn't real tough was it.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
