SueS, Just read your whole thread and think you are on the right track with all your actions. My sitch is like yours (except W is having the contact and A). Both Husband and lwb are offering great support (Husband has been great for me also) and my little snippet is DON'T PEEK. I spoke to my W about this the other week and stated 'The only person I would hurt is me, so your phone is yours.' W also stated that it would hurt her for me to see some of the posts - WTH? Keep up the exercise and become that woman of mystery. Be flirty then pull back - go on confuse the hell out of him, make him want you and hold him at arms length. If he is male and breaths, he will be crawling after a short while (I know I would be). If you want to tell us the gory details ;-), we won't mind - in fact, for some of us this will be the closest we have come to sex in ages (LOL).
