My W wants me to be responsible for all our bills(including her cell phone)!!! I want to hand her the bill and tell her to pay it since I know her calls to OM are on this bill.
I know she will get angry but I don't see why I shoud pay for my W being unfaithful.
What I intend to say is:
"Yes, I made a mess of our finances but I was working to fix it ALONE"!!
"You felt lonely for a long time but SO WAS I"
"However lonely I felt, I still didn't CHEAT"
I know this goes against the DB way of not briging up OM. So I am asking all those that are reading this.."What should I do"?
P.S. I will have my children tonight so she will definitely be going out socially. So if I were to say these things, should I wait until tomorrow?
Me: 41 W: 40 D5, S4 Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007 Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007
