Sweet Babies!! That's my daughter's phrase for when things are "excellent" and I am so glad for you and your H. I have heard many good things about Retrovaille and believe me, if h and I ever go down the rough road again, and IF I can muster energy to do it, (sometimes I think DBing is a once in a marriage type of experience, if you know what I mean) I'd do Retrovaille in a heart beat. Frankly, I am baffled by someone who doesn't want a divorce, who refuses any type of help.
I also totally understand what you mean about too much time on the board. This is a very valuable outlet and without it, I'd be split up I'm sure. Having said that, it's also a bit "addicting" and can replace the intimacy we need to have with our spouses. So, on that note, I'll be going now. Anyway, congrats and welcome to "piecing". As I mentioned, for ME, forgiveness is a process but it's also mandatory. Some posts way back, I think one I wrote to Keepingthefaith (sp?) were about dealing with our anger. I will go re-read what I wrote, b/c I find I'm having a low tolerance (it's as if I'm thinking that since H "owes" me so much for coming here and putting up with his craziness, I ought to get everything else I want....yeah, I'm working on it...)
Don't know if that's an issue for you yet, or ever will be. But take care and keep on keepin' on. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
