I started reading Dr. Harley's advice on Marriage Busters and he states that some affairs are like alcohol addiction. I am so paraphrasing, but it really struck me that some H's get caught and keep cheating and lying. So I guess for them it is not just going out and making a mistake and getting drunk, it is an ongoing addiction or sickness or disease. I actually wonder if it is possible for you to forgive the CW? She sounds like her life has been destroyed by all of this, too.
Has her H been trying to reconcile? I am so sorry for all this drama. You are an amazing mom to shelter them this way. I am not sure if your H will consider counseling for visitation. He might take that as an insult. I guess I am biased because my H is such a crack pot and is in denial. Even the most awful offenders get visitation. MB: Resentment after Infidelity
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
