Totally natural to feel that way Sue. Honestly, when I had heard OW's H found out about A, I freaked thinking "Oh this isn't going to die on its own, its going to become even more secret/fun for them." Selfish me, huh? I am sorry they are divorcing.
That is SOOOOOO funny that you did the "I want to talk relationship" voice, and then said something so normal. LOL!!!!! I love it! And no calls or gym?? That's great!!! He didn't feel pressured at home, so he stayed. Way to go!