Nomopo's Thread - Is something happening to me?

[BirdDog]

Nomo,

Wanted to leave you with this thought for the holiday weekend, something my IC taught me.

"You can't furnish a room with the word couch"

It is the actual physical object in the room that furnishes the room. You can't just say "couch" and have a furnished room. The word alone is not enough, or a rose by any other name is still a rose. Just as in the word "marriage", you can't just say it and have a marriage, it is a two way agreement between 2 people, once 1 side breaks the agreement there is no longer a marriage, despite the fact that the other side keeps saying marriage.

If I remember correctly, part of your seperation agreement with your wife, was that she would no longer have the lunches w/ her OM. If she has broken part of the agreement does that not void the entire agreement? I think as an atty you would have some type of leagal-ease for this.

This thought would probably be considered anti-DBing, but there will come a time, and perhaps you are already there, where you may consider the fact that the M is no longer viable to save. Once you truly accept this fact, and IMHO you can't truly detach until you accept this fact.