Donna,

I'm surprised that you are surprised. Oldtimer and I have both been assuring you that he is still lying to you, particularly about the relationship with CW. It's true, adulterers are not above lying! You can't believe anything he says. He is trying to paint a picture of himself that is good and upstanding, and that just isn't the case. Look in your attic, there might be a portrait of him that is getting rather distorted looking. (Dorian Gray reference). You need to develop your 6th sense, the one that detects BS. It has a distinct odor. I'm sure if you start sniffing you will be able to discern it.