many thanks for your reply! I am very glad I found this site and I am basically lingering for answers from people who already sufferd from the experience I am going through right now..... It feels so good to be understood... Most of my friends are just able to give me pityful words - but that is not what I need.... I need to feel active - having been an active part of my love-relationship and continuing business-relationship with him.
I think these are actually the best conditions to get re-started, as we will be continuing seing each other mostly everyday. So there is chance for initiating change and seing some sort of progress sooner and better than after all my former relationships. Having a common business is even "worse" than having a child...
So I feel very lively to change things - even though the bomb just recently went up....
Got a date with an SBT therapist on Monday. (I'm living in germany and there are no special DB COnsultants) And I am so much looking forward to it!!!
Would though be pleased to get hints on how to deal with EAs as sooooooon as possible!
