My other name is Goal. I am on my work computer and I can't change my name on this one.
Mid-life crisis is about CONTROL. The WAS want control regardless of the pain, consequences, chaos, destruction, etc... they cause. They are losing control of their health, finances, morality, hair growth, erection potential, ability to produce children, attractiveness, etc...
Not following through on a divorce in some cases gives MLC's control. Especially if the LBS is just willing to sit in limbo land.
When I did not want a divorce, my H wanted it. Now that I am acting like I want it, my H won't sign the settlement agreement.
