Please help in dealing with Hs affair!!!

[SueS]

I got to realize that last weekend - but it was too late.

Nanah-

Welcome to this lovely place. I'm sorry you're here. First off, please try everything not to say.....It was too late....again. We've all looked back at what we've done wrong in our R's and thought it was too late. You're lucky in my opinion because you found Michele & her work so quickly. It took me a LONG time before I found her. That was 6 years ago.
My H had a full on PA. I got all the comments......I don't think I love you anymore.....the OW makes me feel alive......blah, blah, blah. I heard the most hurtful things and I thought I'd never survive. We made it and have had a wonderful R. It's been rough since our D3 was born....we've moved, H wasn't working....lost some family members...etc. I'm here now because my H appears to be having an EA at the very least. He doesn't handle rough times very well. Your situation is unique, as you are always around him. Hopefully someone on the board can help you with that part.

I just want to say.....welcome......we're here for you. There are a lot of incredibly wise people here. Trust me, I've gotten good thoughts and had my mood boosted a lot.

Use this site to ask questions, vent, journal....whatever you need.

Have you thought of calling a DB? I lived in IL (close to Michele's office there) during the last time. I went to see a coach & he was wonderful.......straight forward, no bs. I loved it.

Please hold on & keep strong.

SueS