as the time for h to come gets closer, I'm starting to get nervous. what if he comes in and just makes the pronouncement, that he's taking the kids to her beachhouse. what do I do? I know what I'll do if he asks about it ahead of time again, and I know what I'll do if he just does it w/o letting me know ahead of time. but what if he does it like this? he knows I won't make a scene in front of the kids. I can hustle them upstairs and try to talk with him about it out of their hearing, but honestly, if he goes this route and is a complete jerk about it, there is really nothing I can do, short of making that scene/not letting them leave, which would hurt the kids, so again, not an option.
ugh. getting nervous.
hopefully I'm just worrying for nothing here.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"