Thanks for the well wishes. I came to this board for validation for my feelings. A sympathetic ear, people who've been there done that. I'm amazed that all I get is go to Ret. go to counseling, read this, read that, do this do that. I'm not the one who violated the M.

Thanks OT, I know you mean well, but your advise drives me nuts! You seem to have all the answers, yet you're not listening! I'm not HAPPY!!!!! Bottom line. Can my husband make me happy? NO!!!!! Do I want a divorce? I don't know, but it sure is an option. Will my H file before me? Does that matter who got there first? No, it would be the same result - dirvorced.

I'm through here too. This isn't the forum for me. I must move on. Thanks for the shove.


Gwyn