Are you going to reactivate your thread (or did I miss it)?
No, I haven't reactivated, it was kind of a therapy for me, and I just haven't felt the need for it, but was wondering how your sitch was going.
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And, it is not just for my kids. I would MUCH prefer to see my kids every night, tuck them in every night, etc.
Ah yes, I felt that way as well, I was with my S8 every night and that has been taken away from. But, and I discussed this with my IC, the times we do have together are now cherished sooo much more.
Interesting thing happened to me this morning. I had to drop S8 off at daycare as it was my night w/ him, so I left much later for work. Well, a car turns onto a highway ramp a couple cars in front of me, and it's the W. My very 1st reaction was to follow her and see if OM was with her. Put the turn signal on to make the turn, then just as quickly turned it off and continued my way to work, didn't dwell on it, even chuckled at myself for having that intial reaction, but was even prouder of myself for so quickly dimissing the reaction. I think you are on your way to this type of detachment, at least that's what I'm foreseeing for you.
Me: 41 W: 38 Son7 M 13 years 3/07 Bomb "This marriage isn't working for me anymore" S 5/26/07 Thread