I was thinking that my H would be less likely to tell the C no than me. My mind set has been that I can not push...I can not ask for anything...I just have to sit and wait for him to get help on his own or for him to come to me if he ever will. Right now, I am tetering on the edge...I still want my marriage, but then I am thinking maybe I should start looking for life beyond that. I am considering filing and eventually starting to date. I want to hold on to my marriage but, I need to see some kind of movement in my H. Two weeks ago, I thought he was making teeny-tiny step but then he went running off again. I know my H loves me and I know that there is a big part of him that wants to be with me. I am just so frustrated because he seems to be okay leaving that wall right where it is, between us.
So, my question is now, if I ask my H if he would get back into C would he think that I am pushing? Or am I better off just continuing the waiting game for as long as I can?
