Okay... if you choose to accept it... your immediate goal could be to rebuild the Trust-Safety Nest. What does that mean.
A man needs to be able to trust his wife.
A woman needs to feel safe with her man.
Trust/Safety are the Ying and Yang of a marriage. Sex has NOTHING to do with this, but it is one of the first things that will suffer if you BOTH start ripping apart your Trust-Safety Nest... because you can't have MEANINGFUL sex without it!!!
You can fkc. You can have crap sex. But you CANNOT have meaningful sex without it.
Once you get THAT rebuilt... it isn't a guarantee that you will have all the meaningful sex you could ever want, but I'm confident when I say, it is the very best odds you can set for yourself to reach that goal...
All the stuff you just said about your wife? Yes, yes, yes....!!!!! You are getting it.
