God, the devil or fate?

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Thanks, you made a lot of sense.

Can I use your thinking for myself? I made a mistake, but I'm still a good person. I guess I should say that for my W too, she made a mistake, but she is still a good person.

I think you XH is deluded, if he really thinks this OW can fullfill his needs, make him happier, or do anything for him better than you did. He has to fullfill himself and if he looks to others, he'll end up in a mess again. Poor guy.

What song did you pick?

I've finally gotten to where I can listen to love songs, sad songs, songs that remind me of her, and not become emotional. I still have a hard time with a couple of songs I associate with the OM.

should everyone have a theme song?

Do you know a bbq place called, I think, Oklahoma Joe's? It's in a gas station. When I worked in KC, I tried most of the BBQ, and I think that was my favorite.

Be careful about sweet, nice, attentive men. We all (speaking for all men) have an evil side.

My friends warn me that IF I get a divorce, I will need to wait before I date again, that I'll be a mess, wether I realize it or not, for months or more, before I can be in a relationship that will be fair to the other person. How do you feel about that? You just want a friend now. Friends are good.