I opened my mouth with W this morning after she invited me in. She checks out the picnic and I rush the door. She did say she would come by this weekend and bring S so I could see him. That was nice. I'm pushing way too much for a commitment to work on the R and need to back off.
I'm with Heim on this one. But at least now you are able to identify when this occurs and stop it before it turns into something bad.
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Well this weekend I have a friends coming into town and everyone is coming over, I think it will probably turn into a party by Saturday night. Should be a good time.
Have fun with this tomorrow. Use it as a time to try and take a step back from your W and give her some space.
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Dropped S off this morning, we had a good night. I ended up letting him stay up since he wanted to wait by the window for mommy. I told him she was working and we would see her in the morning but he insisted on waiting. It's pretty said to see.
Everytime I read about your S having a hard time with this it really makes me sad. You are doing the right thing by him showing him the love that he deserves. Keep it up.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1162413&page=2#Post1162413 M-28 W-28 Together 10 years Married 2 years No children Things started taking a turn in 01/07
