MLC Wife exposing little kids to OMs

[mile_high_PMA]

Thank you and thank you some more for all the good advice.

We share custody right now, the girls are with me 4 nights at our (my) home and at their mom's apartment for 3 nights.

I have already talked to my my L and she has concurred that we can take legal action if need to to stop exposing these kids to this behavior. If this means I need to file D thats okay with me.

I do however want to give her a chance to rectify it through a friendly but assertive discussion. If she doesn't want to change her behavior, which is very likely, I will contact my L.

Since my younger D5 is already showing signs of behavioral problems, I am also considering a visit to a Family therapist with my DDs. Do I need permission from my W to take my kids to a MC?