Lessons from a former WAS

[thegoodfight]

Well my W. sister is coming into town tonight and since her boyfriend can't come, my W. is worried she might feel uncomfortable with me there since she knows about our difficulties plus she wants to talk to her.

I have just been bluntly asked to make myself scarce for a Saturday, but come back Sunday since she wants help watching the Kids at the beach. I said no problem however I am somewhat irritated by this.

Reason one: We have given a considerable amount of money the S. to help her out of her D. jam.
Second: Sister took out money to give to the boyfriend instead of keeping it to take care of her kids and pay us back. (We are not made of Money).
Third: It is my house and W seems to want me around except when she talks to her family or they visit. Exception her father who does not know anything at this point.

Any thoughts on this, perhaps I am just mad about the lack of progress, perhaps it is just another of example of how I felt she always put her family before ours. I don't know, this morning I was so sure I would hang in there no matter what. Now I am very upset by what appears to me to be very selfish on both there parts. Please any thoughts are appreciated. Especailly any that say I am over reacting.