God, the devil or fate?

[LoginName]

Hi, I'm trying to keep up. You're living an interesting life, lucky you.

Maybe I'll learn something from reading your posts. For instance, I think I learned that for women there is a difference between dressing and looking good and looking sexy (you said that this guy asked if you always dress that sexy for work. You were thinking what is it with men, it's just a sweater and skirt - something like that). You were dressed to look good. I think men only see sexy. If they are interested in a women, and she is in sweats, it looks sexy, if she wears a top hat, clown nose, and a sweaty burlap bag, it looks sexy.

But, do you like being told you look sexy, or would you rather be told you look good, on a first date, just getting to know the guy?

By the way, have pity on us dorks who cook and often say weird, inappropriate things. ;-)