I am choosing my battles with H. Luckily we do have a college fund established. On H's behalf (since I woke up in a kinder mood than last night) I know he is concerned because he has a mandatory retirement that will happen while D16 is in college. Since he doesn't know what kind of job he will be able to get then he doesn't want to be court ordered to pay child support through college. He did agree to continue with health insurance which was very important to me. I hope I am not selling her short.
