H doesn't even want to keep D16 on his cell phone plan although he has plenty of shared minutes---even when I mentioned the advantage of having free calls between them! He thinks since he will be paying child support that he won't do one thing extra! Certaintly won't add one more cent to her college fund!
OMG what a D-I-C-K!!! I am sorry but that is just wrong. She is his child too.
I just thought of something. Child support does not end at 18 does it? It should continue on through college. And can you make that part of the settlement, that H has to continue to contribute to her college fund?
You can tell I do not know much about child support. But I work with a woman who is a single mother of two girls. Every month her X sends her exactly what he was ordered to 11 years ago and not one cent more. Even though his salary has tripled in that time. She has struggled so much to give her girls a little bit of extra's (like playing in the band and and driver's ed and a class ring). I think that is just wrong! I have been urging her to go back and ask for more support, but she is afraid she would not have to the money to fight for it.
Sorry didn't mean to go off on a tangent on your thread, Matilda.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
