My wife is falling in love with OM - II

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As tough as it sounds, taking a step back and letting figure things out is something that you should do. In my sitch every time I have tried to talk about the R, all I get is that I am confused. My W knows how much this will hurt everyone around her and she is not sure who she wants to eb with, me or the OM. Focus on you and make yourself the best you can be and if she wants to come back you can reap the rewards and if not you are better off personally...That is the part that is toughest for me.