Originally Posted By: SDFoundGirl

1. Change your mind, and you change your world.
2. Let go of what you can't control, focus on what you can.
3. Law of Attraction: Put your attention on what you want, not on what you don't want.
SD


Must....remember...psycho grade-chasing parents....cantankerous grandmas....not about ME, about their insecurities and fears...must DB those people....

Yeah, back to school night. LOTS of positives, MOSTLY positives, but of course I noticed the handful of people who--IF I LET THEM--will make my life horrible. Especially since I don't know that for sure. WHY DO I GIVE A CRAP ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK????

*I* am the teacher, and I do not pull what I do out of my @ss. I'm educated, I work hard, I think about and refine what I do, and I continue to educate myself.

Why do I hate myself so much I'm willing to let people who don't even know me intimidate me? Create a whole story about how they probably think I'm crazy and will cause me trouble? Because it's about me...I can't control them...I can only control me.

This is my achilles heel. I care about what others' think--or what I think they think--too much. Gotta let that go....

SD


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!