I of course have thought that she was acting like this because she had an affair and was feeling guilt. She says she didn't and what choice do I have other than to believe her? Do I continue to question her? What if she is telling the truth and my questioning pushes her away again?????
We seperated because she was unhappy and felt that I had emotionally not loved her for a long time.
If I found out it was an affair, and if it were over for good, I would want our marriage to continue. It is possible that she has had one and will never tell me. She has had plenty of opportunities to tell me. For a long period of time, in her mind, we were getting a divorce.
When we were seperated, we had contact almost daily. Some of it was concerning our D and some of it was just chatting.
