Hey I slip all the time. I should know better. Sometimes when you are in pain/anxiety you don't think very clearly. It just feels like if you can get it off your chest that you'd feel better. Well, usually I piss off my W and make it worse. I'm slowly doing better. I definitely recommend telling your H that appearing desperate is not attractive. Hearing that from my W definitely made me rethink some of my behaviors.....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.